The Art Of Flirting - How To Flirt With Women
by Joseph Matthews

We will begin with a question.

Have you ever met a girl you liked, and despite your best efforts, you got stuck in the "lets just be friends" category?

Well, there is a reason that happened!

Chances are it was because you did not know how to flirt properly with the woman.

Understand: Flirting is a very important part of the attraction process, and if you do it wrong (or worse yet, not at all!), the odds of blowing your chance with the girl go up significantly.

What is the importance of flirting?

The answer is simple: Flirting is the process by which sexual tension is created!

And if you don't have sexual tension in an interaction, there is no attraction. And if there's no attraction, what does that make you?

You guessed it - A FRIEND!

So when you know the proper way to flirt with a girl, your chances of attracting her go up exponentially.

Flirting is no big secret as many might consider, flirting is a lot of fun. Flirting does not work only if it is not done properly.

See, there's an art to flirting with a woman. Flirting is all about communicating your sexual interest in the girl, without coming right out and SAYING it.

Mixed signals are what this is.

Your actions are communicating one thing, but your words are saying something completely different.

Some of the most common mistakes men make while flirting with a woman include:

MISTAKE #1: They Are Too Obvious

Many men are caught up in the excitement of being attracted to a woman, and then they say exactly what they feel. They do not realize that this type of information presentation forces the woman to decide how she may feel about him.

Keep in mind, by not laying the groundwork properly beforehand, you risk the chance of finding rejection from the woman.

MISTAKE #2: They Aren't Obvious Enough!

There are men who communicate no interest at all, since they assume the woman knows how they feel. This catches a woman by surprise because she has not clue of his interest.

MISTAKE #3: They Rely On Words Instead Of Actions

Flirting has a good deal to do with the words you use; however, non-verbal body language is a more powerful method. These are those little things such as, tilting your head, raising an eyebrow or casting a wicked little smile, since they give new meaning to otherwise innocent remarks.

MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously

Flirting is a lighthearted and fun practice, it is when serious romantic gestures begin that causes the sexual tension to break down.

You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt.

We could list more mistakes; however, this should provide you with a clear picture. Do you wonder what the right way to begin flirting is?

Use as many sexual overtones as possible, this is a good way to flirt, however, you must keep it subtle.

Let us say you are at a bar, for example and the woman you are with orders a drink and then asks if you would like one as well, you can jokingly say to her, You aren't trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me, are you, while adding a nod and a wink.

This communicates your interest, it's insinuating sex, but you're not coming outright and saying it. It's implied, and it's fun, and its light hearted.

Another example would be, if a girl says something raunchy or naughty to you, you might respond with something like "Stop trying to seduce me, you vixen! You know I don't put out on the first date."

Consider how this works.

After you begin flirting more often, you will begin to be more apparent concerning your interests, without ever crossing that line.

As you do this, you'll begin to notice how the attraction between you and the girl starts to build and build. And before you know it, that harmless flirting becomes an outright SEDUCTION.

And that is when the real fun begins.
 

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