Having trouble picking up women? Have no fear! All you need to do is follow a
few simple methods to help you get the woman of your dreams!
Are you looking to start picking up women, but clueless about where to start?
Many guys get lots of bad advice about picking up women from their friends and
family who know even LESS about how to get a girl than they do. Even so-called
"Dating experts" that you see on TV usually don't know what they're talking
about because they have to cater to the feminist media! (And truth be told, the
mainstream media looks down on any tactic that could help guys get laid!)
The fact is: Teaching guys how to pick up women is a touchy subject!
If you want to have success with women TONIGHT, you're going to have to follow
some practical advice that works right away. Lucky for you, I'm about to share
some with you right now...
Let me first tell you what you DON'T need to pick up women.
You DON'T need to look like a "male model."
This is a big mistake most men make. Understand that about 85% of women actually
care more about how a man can make them FEEL than how the man actually LOOKS.
So if you don't think you're a good looking guy, fear not! You're not out of the
game yet.
Another thing is - you DON'T need to spend lots of cash or drive flashy cars!
Some of the best pick up artists I've ever met never spend more than $30 when on
a date, and many of them didn't even own a car! (And if they did, it wasn't a
very nice one!)
Most women don't care how much money you make or spend on them - IF they
actually like you! And a big part of picking up women is to get them to like
you, isn't that right?
Finally, you DON'T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or
nationality, or anything else you can think of.
Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to
getting a girl to like you!
If you know the proper way to interact with women, nothing else matters.
Unless you're currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of
success with women right away when using these tactics - after all, it takes
time to practice and learn from your experiences. But if you actually apply what
you've learned, you'll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!
In order to learn the quickest, you'll want to go out as often as you can -
particularly when you're first starting. You don't have to go to nightclubs or
other high-pressure environments to meet women, but they are great "practice
grounds" because there are SO MANY women there to meet and talk to.
No matter what - if you want to get better, you need to devote some time every
day to go out and pick up women. The more you do it, the better you'll get!
When you're first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the
ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow.
Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you
better at picking up women.
And the more experience you have, the more likely it is you'll be able to MASTER
the art of picking up women!
The most important thing to remember about going out to pick up women is to gain
experience!
When you do go out to gain this valuable experience with the ladies, try and
look as good as you possibly can!
(Notice here that I'm not saying you have to be "good looking." I'm saying you
need to "look good." There is a big difference between the two. You don't have
any say about what you look like, but you DO have a say in your appearance -
your hairstyle, the clothes you wear, what cologne you put on, etc.)
Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you
and tailor them to fit. If you're not into fashion and don't know where to
start, ask a female friend who's very fashion conscious to help you find the
right types of clothes.
Dressing nicely to meet women is not mandatory - you don't NEED to do it.
However, it will make the process of meeting women much easier (women do like
men who take pride in their appearance). Also, the nicer your dress, the more
confident you'll feel!
Always be on the lookout for pickup opportunities. Attractive women are
everywhere, and it's always a bad idea to let an opportunity to meet one of them
slip you by!
Finally, every good pick-up follows a structure. Its a series of steps you can
actually REPEAT time and time again and get similar results.
Here's the structure:
Find a girl.
Walk up and meet her.
Start Talking and Gain Rapport.
Build Attraction.
These four simple steps is all you need! You'll find that if you can just meet
the women you want and gain rapport with them, you'll easily be able to build
attraction with them too.
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